...29 jan 2010...

ermm....lps klas...tetibe bosan...

tatau nk wtpe...

tetibe je otak aku bernyala(ala mcm mentol kt otak tuh)

:p

ape kate p mne2...

memandangkan weekend ni sume housemate alek...

then aku xde ke mne2...

klo dia leh njoy suke2 kt seberang laut...

aku pon bleh r..

huhu~

lgi pon nk tenangkan kpale ni...

lps test...ngn proposal projek berlambak2...

need rest to refresh my mind...

huhu...

so plan nyer...MALACCA!!!!

then aku contact abg aku..

tnye dia kt ne..

kot2 leh amik aku n anta kt pudu...

seb bek dia free...

n ade kt ampang...

yela..nk jmp awexx laa tuh...

thnxx abg!

then aku suwo si iza belikn tix...

thnxx to iza n bron...

:)

kol10...tix ke melaka...

neves....xpnh nek bus.

hahahhaa..

apatah lgi kt pudu...

erghh...

leh lak jejak kasih ngn si amy n spe erk nme dia..

hahahha..

kwn2 alin...bdk2 uitm dulu...

then dpt msg tergempar dri nisya...

salsabilla kwn aku mse dip kt kptm bangi dulu...

telah meninggal sbb xcident...

innalillah....

sgt2 terkejot...

semoga arwah ditempatkan dikalangan org2 yg beriman...

amin~

al-fatihah

Teardrops on my Guitar Taylor Swift

Drew looks at me, I fake a smile so he won't see
That I want and I'm needing everything that we should be
I'll bet she's beautiful, that girl he talks about
And she's got everything that I have to live without

Drew talks to me, I laugh cause it's just so damn funny
That I can't even see anyone when he's with me
He says he's so in love, he's finally got it right,
I wonder if he knows he's all I think about at night

He's the reason for the teardrops on my guitar
The only thing that keeps me wishing on a wishing star
He's the song in the car I keep singing, don't know why I do

Drew walks by me, can he tell that I can't breathe?
And there he goes, so perfectly,
The kind of flawless I wish I could be
She'd better hold him tight, give him all her love
Look in those beautiful eyes and know she's lucky cause



So I drive home alone, as I turn out the light
I'll put his picture down and maybe
Get some sleep tonight

He's the reason for the teardrops on my guitar
The only one who's got enough of me to break my heart
He's the song in the car I keep singing, don't know why I do
He's the time taken up, but there's never enough
And he's all that I need to fall into..

Drew looks at me, I fake a smile so he won't see

:'(

mampukah?

mampukah aku???

utk tros berdri tnpa dia di sisi?

mampukah???

mampukah aku??

utk menjalani idop tnpa dia temani??

mampukah??

mampukah aku??

utk ketawa gembira tnpa dia gelak bersama???

mampukah??

mampukah aku??

utk menangis hiba tnpa dia memujuk aku?

mampukah??

mampukah aku???

utk tahan merindu tnpa dia memeluk aku??

mampukah??

mampukah aku??

utk segala2nya tnpa DIA????

mampukah???

ternyata...

aku tidak mampu....

tanpa DIA~

Tongue Twisters

1. If you understand, say "understand" . If you don't understand, say "don't understand". But if you understand and say "don't understand". How do I understand that you understand? Understand!

2. I wish to wish the wish you wish to wish, but if you wish the wish the witch wishes, I won't wish the wish you wish to wish.

3. Sounding by sound is a sound method of sounding sounds.

4. A sailor went to sea to see, what he could see. And all he could see was sea, sea, sea.

5. Purple Paper People, Purple Paper People, Purple Paper People

6. If two witches were watching two watches, which witch would watch which watch?

7. I thought a thought.But the thought I thought wasn't the thought I thought I thought. If the thought I thought I thought had been the thought I thought, I wouldn't have thought so much.

8. Once a fellow met a fellow In a field of beans. Said a fellow to a fellow, "If a fellow asks a fellow, Can a fellow tell a fellow What a fellow means?"

9. Mr Inside went over to see Mr Outside. Mr Inside stood outside and called to MrOutside inside. Mr Outside answered Mr Inside from inside and Told Mr Inside to come inside. Mr Inside said "NO", and told Mr Outside to come outside. MrOutside and Mr Inside argued from inside and outside about going outside or coming inside. Finally, Mr Outside coaxed Mr Inside to come inside, then both Mr Outside and Mr Inside went outside to the riverside.

10. SHE SELLS SEA SHELLS ON THE SEA SHORE , BUT THE SEA SHELLS THAT SHE SELLS, ON THE SEA SHORE ARE NOT THE REAL ONES

11. The owner of the inside inn was inside his inside inn with his inside outside his inside inn.

12. If one doctor doctors another doctor does the doctor who doctors the doctor doctor the doctor the way the doctor he is doctoring doctors? Or does the doctor doctor the way the doctor who doctors doctors? "When a doctor falls ill another doctor doctor's the doctor. Does the doctor doctoring the doctor doctor the doctor in his own way or does the doctor doctoring the doctor doctors the doctor in the doctor's way"

13. We surely shall see the sun shine shortly. Whether the weather be fine, Or whether the weather be not, Whether the weather be cold Or whether the weather be hot, We'll weather the weather Whatever the weather, Whether we like it or not. watch? Whether the weather is hot. Whether the weather is cold. Whether the weather is either or not. It is whether we like it or not.

14. Nine nice night nurses nursing nicely.

15. A flea and a fly in a flue Said the fly "Oh what should we do" Said the flea" Let us fly Said the fly"Let us flee" So they flew through a flaw in the flue

16. If you tell Tom to tell a tongue-twister his tongue will be twisted as tongue-twister twists tongues.

17. Mr. See owned a saw.And Mr. Soar owned a seesaw. Now See's saw sawed Soar's seesaw Before Soar saw See, Which made Soar sore.Had Soar seen See's saw Before See sawed Soar's seesaw, See's saw would not have sawed Soar's seesaw. So See's saw sawed Soar's seesaw.But it was sad to see Soar so sore Just because See's saw sawed Soar's seesaw.

mendekati LELAKI???

Bagaimana anda menambat hati lelaki, terutama kekasih atau suami sendiri? Manusia memang tidak mampu meneroka hati dan jiwa manusia. Namun anda boleh belajar mengenal mereka supaya kebahagian dapat dinikmati bersama. Apa sebenarnya yang harus anda lakukan untuk menambat hati lelaki?

Terima lelaki agar dia menerima anda

Mungkin tiada perkataan yang lebih sesuai untuk menyatakan ini selain ” Terimalah lelaki sebagai sediakala”. Terimalah dia sebagai lelaki. Yang penting untuk anda tahu ialah mengenai lelaki, dan bukan mengubah lelaki. Jika anda mahu mengubah personaliti lelaki yang menjadi kekasih atau suami anda, dia mungkin akan menjadi insan lain, yang mungkin tidak anda sukai dan tidak menyukai anda.

Fahamilah lelaki agar dia memahami anda

Cuba memahami perangai sedia ada pada sesorang lelaki yang menyesuaikan perangai itu dengan diri anda. Ianya adalah lebih baik dari cuba mengubahnya dan beranggapan bahawa ianya tidak sesuai dengan anda. Asalkan perangai itu tidak bertentangan dengan kehendak agama dan kesopanan budaya. Dengan cara itu lelaki akan cuba memahami anda dan menyesuaikan dirinya dengan diri anda.

Berubah untuk menikmati perubahan

Sekiranya anda mahu mengubah perangai lelaki, malah perangai sesiapa pun, anda tidak akan mampu berbuat demikian kerana insan itu sendirilah yang akan mengubah perangainya jika dia mahu. Anda cuma boleh memujuk dan mempengaruhinya agar berpihak kepada anda. Anda sendiri perlulah sanggup berubah kepada perangai yang lebih baik untuk membolehkan seseorang lelaki berubah memperbaiki dirinya.

Sanggup memberi untuk menerima

Di atas segala-galanya, apa yang penting untuk anda lakukan ialah sanggup memberi lebih banyak berbanding apa yang anda terima daripada lelaki. Dengan itu, anda mungkin akan menerima lebih banyak daripada yang sanggup anda beri.

Percaya untuk dipercayai

Sekiranya anda tidak mempercayai lelaki, jangan anda mengharapkan lelaki itu mempercayai anda. Hidup ini meminta pada yang ada, memujuk pada yang sayang. Untuk membuat orang lain percaya kepada anda bukanlah perkara yang mudah. Bagi menyebabkan orang lain tidak percaya pada anda, bukan lah payah. Apabila lelaki sudah tidak percayakan anda, amat sukar pula untuk dia mengubah pendiriannya.

Menangkan lelaki untuk menang

Mengenal lelaki bukanlah untuk mengalahkan lelaki. Dalam sebuah perkahwinan, sepatutnya sama-sama menag dalam semua aspek kehidupan. Dalam satu perkahwinan ada dua kuasa, pertama kuasa suami dan kedua kuasa isteri. Kuasa suami adalah memulakan dan menyuarakan. Kuasa isteri pula adalah sama ada bersetuju atau tidak. Sekiranya kedua-duanya menyalahgunakan kuasa, perkahwinan itu akan menjadi porak-peranda.

Sifat negatif akan membuah kesan negatif

Ramai wanita yang mencabar dan celupar terhadap lelaki atau suami sendiri. Ramai juga yang bersifat pendesak, terlalu banyak meminta, merendah- rendahkan suami, membandingkan suaminya dengan lelaki lain dan memaki hamun suaminya. Sekiranya anda bersifat demikian, walau bagaimana kenalpun anda kepada suami anda, anda bukanlah seorang wanita yang bijak. Andalah yang mungkin menjadi penyebab mengapa suami anda merasa tertekan, tidak selesa, banyak berdiam diri, bermasam muka dan sebagainya lagi yang tidak menyenangkan anda. Andalah yang sepatutnya berubah.

Bertanggung jawab dan menikmati kesan tanggung jawab

Sebenarnya tanggung jawab wanita terhadap suaminya tidak akan berubah walaupun dunia ini makin maju. Begitu juga dengan tanggung jawab suami kepada isteri. Selagi anda menjalankan tanggung jawab anda dengan sempurna sebagaimana yang digariskan oleh agama, anda tidak perlu risau apa pun.

Kritikan akan membuahkan kritikan

Kritikan merbahaya kerana ia menjadikan lelaki defensif dan sedaya upaya ingin mempertahankan dirtinya. Ia juga bahaya kerana melukakan nilai diri lelaki. Menjejaskan rasa kepentingan diri. Dan menyebabkan lelaki merasa kecewa kepada anda dan mungkin akan mengkriti anda pula.

Beri kepada lelaki apa yang dia mahu

Dia akan melakukan apa saja untuk anda dan memberi apa yang anda mahu. Ada dua perkara besar yang dimahukan oleh lelaki (i) kehendak seks, dan (ii) kehendak untuk mejadi penting. Setiap orang dewasa mahukan kesihatan, makan, tidur, wang, kepuasan seks, anak-anak yang terjaga, rasa dipentingkan dan hidup yang bahagiua dunia dan akhirat. Berilah lelaki apa yang dia mahu dan apa yang boleh anda berikan.

Tunjuk minat tulin terhadap lelaki

Dia akan menujukkan minat terhadap anda. Dengar apa yang ingin dikatakannya, walaupun ianya tentang dirinya sendiri, juga mengenai kerjanya ataupun kesukaannya. Lebih berminat anda padanya, maka lebih berminatlah dia pada anda.

Senyum itu tanda kasih yang tak perlu dibayar

Anda tidak perlu membayar apa-apa untuk senyum pada lelaki yang anda kasihi. Dia akan senyum kembali pada anda. Betapa nikmatnya senyuman yang dilemparkan pada anda itu, begitulah juga nikmat yang dirasanya apabila anda senyum padanya. Senyum menyebabkan lelaki suka pada anda.

Panggillah lelaki dengan panggilan manja

Sebagaimana anda mahukan lelaki memanggil anda dengan nama yang baik dan nada lembut, begitu pula lelaki. Dia mahukan anda memanggilnya dengan lembut, merdu dan manja, sesuai dengan sifat anda sebagai wanita.

Hormati dia sebagai lelaki

Dia akan menghormati anda sebagai wanita. Jika anda berusaha untuk memahami sikapnya, dan bertolak ansur dengannya, dia juga akan melakukan perkara yang sama terhadap anda. Wanita patut menghormati lelaki yang menjadi suaminya, dan memberi penghormatan tidak akan merendahkan kehormatan diri sendiri, malah menjadi diri lebih terhormat.

resipi??sape maw?

Divorce rates are racing the matrimonial charts across continents. The reasons are many but resolutions taken are none. So we at Love Blog have created our own concoction of things which we feel we all need to add in our relationships.

These following proportions should be used and increased as you spend each year with your better half.

• 5 tablespoons Adjustment
• 5 tablespoons Understanding
• 5 tablespoons Patience
• 5 tablespoons Loyalty and Devotion
• 5 tablespoons Empathy

Mix these ingredients together and apply it daily in your life. When both the partners do their bit of adding 5 tablespoons from their side, the relationship gets 10/10.

Work on your marriage today and live a happy, fulfilled lifetime together.

failed?why?

Marriages fall out everyday. Couples say that they tried but it didn’t work out. They are heart broken. Slowly, they heal their emotional scars and try again. But the hurt of the first marriage still lingers somewhere and transforms into their lives again.

Some common reasons why marriages fail are:

1) Fault finding or criticism are hurtful. It involves attacking someone’s nature rather than their behaviour. This hurts the self esteem of the person.

2) Intimacy is crucial in a marriage. Everyone needs and wants to be cared for and nurtured. If this is deprived then the marriage is sure to fail.

3) Nagging and complaining leads to annoyance. It is good to vent out problems but doing that too often is not healthy. Communicate, discuss and resolve your differences rather than bringing them up and arguing over them daily.

4) Stonewalling your partner because you don’t want to deal with the problem. A partner may feel overwhelmed by emotions and problems that the relationship is facing so he/she can withdraw himself/herself. They avoid confrontations by remaining silent, avoid eye contact and decide to sleep early rather than opening and resolving their feelings.

5) Adjustment is the foundation of any marriage. If you are going to live together then you have to give in to your spouse’s good and bad habits. Many find various habits of their partner irritating and annoying.

6) Infidelity can range from a one night drunken mistake to a long term, planned affair. Infidelity happens when feelings of depression, stress or just being overwhelmed with the pressures of life can cause some people to neglect their appearance and hygiene. Another reason for looking outside the marriage is when couples become very demanding. A wife or husband may not realize that nagging and complaining is demanding. It puts a lot of pressure on a spouse to be a certain way for the other. And if they are unable to follow the desired wishes and commands then they start searching for peace outside the house.

Marriages can work if each one understands the other with empathy, communicates openly and stand by each other, taking marriage as a lifelong commitment.

SORRY...

Nurturing a relationship is vital if you want to stay together. Bitterness, irritation and constant stress between two people not only affects their personal mindset but also the people around. Learn to resolve fights and arguments by saying “Sorry.” But many find it hard to say this. It is important to understand that if you are wrong, admitting your mistake is the right thing to do. An argument doesn’t need a winner or a loser.

When in an argument, avoid bringing up the past as it will add more hostility. It is best to remain calm and above all forgive and forget. If you have to disagree then do it devotedly. There will be many occasions when you and your partner will not see things eye to eye. Learn to accept people as they are and adjust whole-heartedly.

Learn to be persistent in showing that both of you like each other and want to better your relationship at every stage of your life. This will create harmony and balance in your lives for years together.

makeover?

Improvement is needed in everything we do, whether it is our appearance or even our relationship. Here are some tips to give your relationship a makeover.

1) Decide: You need to decide on three things you would like to improve about your relationship-whether it is more time together, better sex or a commitment to romantic gestures and work out what you both need to do to make that happen. He could come home early once a week and help you make a nice meal. Or you may need to be more specific about your expectations when it comes to housework and divide up the tasks so you are each responsible for different areas.

2) Practice: Learn to say “Sorry.” It doesn’t mean you were wrong, just that you are sorry your partner feels upset. A gentle apology can defuse a brewing argument and lays the groundwork for a calm chat. Of course, it is two-way street, so you must both agree to say sorry when you have hurt each other.

3) Time: In a relationship, time together doesn’t happen magically just because you live together, in fact it’s much easier to take each other for granted. You need to book in quality time. A date once a week, or a simple agreement that you will switch off the TV and catch up, will bring you closer and remind you why you fell in love. It can help to rule out stressful discussions about kids and money for the first hour and concentrate on your feelings.

4) Compliments: Research shows happily-married couples say five positive things for every negative comment. So make it a priority to compliment your partner everyday.

Relationships are delicate. It is important t

salahke??

Here is a guide to help you make up your mind if you are in a relationship for the wrong reasons:

1) Do you put him on a pedestal? If you find it difficult to see any negative traits whatsoever in your partner, you are romanticizing him. Nobody is without faults and if you refuse to see his, you are not in a real relationship-you are living in fantasyland.

Think Again: You are romanticizing him because you don’t want to face uncomfortable truths which might put the relationship in danger. When you acknowledge his negative traits, it means he has the right to focus on yours. But in any meaningful relationship, it’s essential you are honest with each other, before you commit. Notice how you feel when you are with him-whenever you are hurt, confused, or worried by his words or behaviour, then you will know it is time to speak up.

2) Do You Obsess? At the start of a relationship, it’s pretty normal to read a complex novel into a text message, or to pick apart everything he said with your best friend he said with your best friend. But a few months in, if you are still compulsively analyzing everything he does, scanning his tone of voice for “clues” to his state of mind and lying awake wondering how he is feeling, you have got a problem.

Think Again: When you obsess, it generally means you don’t believe you are worthy of his love. You have made him 100% more important than you in the relationship and given him all the power. Wake up to the idea that all good relationships and 50/50. Tell him how you feel, for a change and focus on your own life. If he’s all you have got, you will be pretty boring.

3) Do You Chase Commitment? If you are addicted to being in love, nothing feels secure as you are convinced if he stops loving you, you will be worthless. With such a frightening prospect in view, no wonder you are terrified he is going to leave you. To combat the fear, you chase promises of commitment and proof of love, and panicking when he is 10 minutes late home in case he is run off.

Think Again: If you smother someone, they will want to run away. No one can take being endlessly required to prove they are trustworthy. If an ex cheated, then you are carrying the baggage and should stay single till you are over it or get counseling. If you have no reason to doubt him- other than your own lack of self-belief you need to bite your tongue before you drive him away altogether.

4) Do You Push Him To The Edge? When they are damaged or hurt, children often rebel by testing the boundaries of their parents love. By behaving as badly as possible, they reason, they can find out if their parents will love them no matter what. And sometimes, that continues into adulthood. If you are constantly picking fights or flirting (and worse) with other guys, you are probably insecure and testing him to see if he will stay.

Think Again: This is a self-fulfilling prophecy. You don’t feel loved so you set out to prove you aren’t loved, so you behave appallingly and one day, he stops loving you. You are trapped in a destructive cycle. A simple conversation: “I have been hurt and I find it hard to believe you really care about me…” will cement your relationship in ways bad behaviour never will.

5) Do You Have Sex Too Soon? When you are starved of love, it’s easy to confuse physical affection with attention. If a guy wants to sleep with you, you feel flattered, validated and convinced it’s the start of a relationship. Otherwise, why would he be so attentive? Of course, 9 times out of ten, it’s because he just wants sex…

Think Again: Make yourself wait, or you’ll keep falling in bed, believing that you are in love. Remind yourself that if he likes you, he will stick around toll you know each other better, But if he just wanted sex, he will move on to the next willing woman, so you are not losing anything by saying no. Sex and love is not the same thing, and one doesn’t always lead to the other. It’s time to stop chasing the fantasy, however romantic his kisses seem, and deal in reality. If a relationship’s worth having, it’s always worth waiting for. Excerpt of this article taken from Daily Mirror

spending quality time

We keep hearing this term very often that quality time is much needed in relationships today. But many fail to define this need and its importance.

• Quality time is essential in building a solid relationship.

• It brings security, comfort and develops understanding.

• The way to practice this is to appreciate one another.

• Show and tell with your actions and behavior how much you admire your partner for his/her good deeds and qualities.

• Manage the balance of dependence and independence because many partners dislike when there is a tendency to cling, then they feel that they are trapped in the relationship.

• Doing activities together brings joy to both partners.

• Decide and plan outings or intimate dinners and spice up your romance.

sustained the relationship

There are no fixed formulae to manage, balance and sustain relationships. But we have to try our best to keep one. Changing or moving from one partner to another may seem fun in the beginning but such relationships have no depth and understanding. They are termed mostly as “one-night stands” or “no strings attached” relationships.

• To be in a true relationship, there are real emotions involved and managing that needs work. The best way to start the foundation of a good relationship is to be truthful.
• Frankness leads to prosperity as you will face less problems. Being honest about what you want is the best way to start influencing your relationship. Leaving no room for guess work, allows emotional security to your partner.
• Manipulation comes in the way of those who don’t know what they are looking for in their relationship. This only complicates the matter and leaves room for conflicts.
• A relationship is a partnership between two people. So you need to know what your partner wants in any situation. Once you have got a proper understanding of what you will have to “give” or “give up,” discussions will be better. It is difficult but true that it is not always possible to change your partner’s mind. It could be a petty issue or a life changing problem.
• The aim shouldn’t be to have your way in every situation or winning an argument. Leave room for openness and allow your partner to speak his/her mind and be a party to the new change.
• Important conversation shouldn’t be rushed or done when you are extremely tired. Interruptions in form of phone calls or discussing when your favorite soap is airing on TV are not the ideal way to resolve conflicts.
• Listening is crucial. You need to hear what your partner thinks and feels as well to move towards a compromise. Ask them what they think about the problem at hand and whether there is anything that they might want to add to it.
• His/her views are also important so that there is no dominance in the relationship but equal sharing. Relationships work when the partner persuades and not manipulates.

maintain the healthy relationship

1. Always clearly communicate how you feel.

2. Give the relationship some space. Avoid getting too clingy.

3. Find a middle ground and commit to make the relationship work.

4. Never lose your confidence and self-esteem. Don’t doubt your instincts or you will hurt yourself and the relationship will crumble.

5. Remember always be calm and patient. The effort will definitely be worth the wait.

to develop and nurturing the successful relationship

Making a relationship work smoothly is not always easy but it is not impossible. The problem usually arises when one takes the other for granted or have too many expectations. The following 25 tips are guidelines to help you delve into your own relationship and look at the possibilities of improvement.

1) Take time out to spend it in a meaningful way with your partner. Quality time is essential to rekindle your love and romance away from kids, family and friends.

2) Relationship needs security and warmth. This is only possible when each person understands the other and is willing to bend a little to accommodate their needs.

3) Love each other dearly but learn to give each other space.

4) Men are rarely able to express themselves as women do. They need more time alone to sort out their thoughts before expressing them. Understanding their needs helps to maintain harmony and respect.

5) Learn to appreciate and compliment one another.

6) Express the way you want him to arouse you. This helps him to understand your needs for intimacy.

7) Learn to be genuine in a relationship. This helps to sort out indifferences and misunderstandings.

8) Love one another with all their good traits as well as bad ones.

9) Be clear in your dealings with your better half. Avoid being resentful. If you had an argument, make up and avoid carrying the ill-feelings forward.

10) It is not a good idea to give your partner a hard time. It will instead make him more obstinate. The best way to accept his good qualities and ignore the ones you dislike.

11) Financial matters are usually the cause of conflicts. Learn to work on a budget and manage your investments jointly.12) Divide your domestic tasks so that both get a chance to manage and run the household successfully.

13) Parenting is a wonderful experience. Share your views and raise your kids together.

14) Learn to bring the passion back if you find a slump in it.

15) Don’t get tempted with one night stand. Remember your marriage vows and what he/she means to you before you give it all up just for adventure or a wager.

16) If you are bored with your partner, it usually covers up some form of anger. It is important that you find out the cause of it.

17) Always be positive and that rubs off on the family members. If he/she is feeling low, give him/her space before hovering over them with questions.

18) Avoid arguments. Don’t be harsh and say hurtful things which will haunt you later.

19) Being perfect all the time is not always possible. Make up for the time you have been nasty by commenting something sweet or hugging him/her.

20) Live in harmony by discussing your likes, desires and goals in life. In this way, achieving them together cements the relationship better.

21) Accept one another and don’t be bitter if he/she has a trait that you dislike. Learn to work around it.

22) Forgiveness is essential in a relationship. But if you find that you really cannot forgive a person then it is best that you move on and find someone else. Being resentful for the rest of your life is not good for the heart and soul.

23) It is important that you realize that the two of you will change and discover yourself as the years go by. You may think that you know him now but later he may not be the same person. So make it a point to find out if neither of you have changed your mind.

24) If the relationship is making you miserable like physical and emotional abuse. Then it is best that you break it off.

25) Seeking advice from counselors doesn’t always mean failure. Professionals know how to manage relationships and provide insights that you may have not considered before.

Every effort that is put in a relationship is never a loss. You will always reap its benefits in some form or the other. If nothing else, you will understand yourself better.

things that you should never say to your girlfriend

There are certain things that you should never say to your girlfriend. Unless of course if your girl is a mind reader. Among the long list of things here are the top ten.

1) “She’s So Hot”- No matter how hot the girl walking in front of you, never say this aloud. It is natural to look but don’t gawk and drool. Even if your girlfriend comments on that girl’s look, don’t feel that is it your duty to partake in the comment. She may know that you do look at girls but don’t make it so obvious about how you feel inside when you stare at them.

2) “My Ex Would Never Do This” – Never compare the old with the new. Your girlfriend believed you when you said that you have moved on so why bring the ex back. Making statements like this will only start an argument and rest assured your girl will be fretting and fuming. But can anyone really blame her.

3) “You friend is so stupid” – Name calling your girlfriend’s friends will not get you anywhere. If you want to keep things in a good way, respect her the way she respects you. Sometimes keeping mum about friends is a good thing even if you really know that the friend is taking advantage then maybe you can take your girl aside and explain things with examples, rather than just blame and pointing fingers.

4) “Why do you love me? I am not good enough for you”- Girls like men with confidence. If you make statements like this then it will be a total turn off. Even if you don’t feel so, acting like it will make you more the man she wants you to be. She will feed your ego and breed real confidence that ultimately ends with you becoming a better person.

5) “If you really loved me you would…” – Putting conditions on her love for you is really very low. Smart guys don’t stoop this low. Be a man and ask her straight. That will get you a lot closer to what you want than trying such pathetic statements.

6) “You are so like your mother” – That is a good thing isn’t it? Well not always. Women do fear at times turning into their mothers. So saying this is not really good. You don’t know what the outcome will become.

7) “I’m not in the mood” – Women can use just about any excuse to put off sex. But if a guy says that he is too tired or just not up for a go, it rattles the very foundation of the relationship. Women think men are sexual deviants with a voracious appetite and your refusing it means something is definitely wrong. She thinks that she is no longer your sex kitten and you definitely are seeing someone else.

8) “I don’t like the outfit you are wearing” – If she is wearing it, she happened to like it enough to spend on it. Making statements like this not only brings her taste into question but it also leaves you looking like a backward, silly man. If you find her outfit too revealing for your taste, you can always explain how you feel and what you think will look good on her. You can take her shopping and show her the clothes you like which you think will compliment her.

9) “What have you done to your hair? It’s awful” – Women like experimenting with their looks and sometimes they don’t turn out as they wanted to. Instead of vocalizing it and giving her funny looks, you can be nice to her. She could be upset too, seeing the end result. So consoling her will only make her love you more.

10) “Don’t get emotional now” – It doesn’t take much to get girls crying. So don’t snap at her when she is emotional or crying. It is best to explain things, help her wipe away her tears and give her a comforting hug.

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